The Secret Garden

S1: Ep13 The Narcissist is Our Soul Mate with Rebecca Dettman

November 16, 2020

The Narcissist is Our Soul Mate with Rebecca Dettman (aka Soul Doctor)

So many people ask survivors of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence “why don’t you just leave” not knowing the trauma bond between the abuser and survivor is very powerful. Rebecca joins Maegan in the garden today to talk about the spiritual connection the survivor and narcissist have between each other and if the survivor is willing, allowing the narcissist to be their greatest teacher. The Narcissist is so good and finding your insecurities and using that to mirror you during the honeymoon phase of the abuse cycle to then use those same insecurities to abuse you and make you feel unworthy of love and a healthy relationship creating a pattern of abuse that is almost impossible to break free from.


Meet Rebecca Dettman:

Rebecca Dettman began her career working as a national print journalist for a decade, before branching into radio and podcasting. She formerly co-hosted the ACRA award-nominated Soul Sistas national radio show and the global Love-Life podcast, before launching her own Soul Doctor Show in 2016, which has been downloaded more than 100,000 times worldwide.


Since 2005 Rebecca has also worked in private practice as a psychic consultant and channel for higher wisdom. She is a fiction novelist, practicing pagan, feminist, and a modern-day priestess in spiritual service to the community.

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